Need help

[aquarius40]

Before my mum passed away last year she told that her spirit guide said that my soul was neither boy or girl and I don't know what that means I so confused with trying to figure it out I hoping someone could help understand

[hera]

Hi Aquarius40,

Our souls don't have a gender, it's just the body which we inhabit while incarnating here on Earth that has a gender and when we return to where we came from after this incarnation we will return to the non-gender state. That's how we can adopt many different roles each time we're here, by choosing differences each time.....so we've all been male/female many times.

[aquarius40]

What did my mums spirit guide mean because I have confused ever since and don't know what to of my gender and my sexuality please if you can help me

[donq]

Hi Aquarius40,

I think Hera already gave you the clear answer.

So, there's nothing you have to worry about. When talking about something more than a (physical) body, everyone is like that. Some men might have more women nature in them; and some women might have more men nature. And it has nothing to do with gender.

In ancient Chinese philosophy, it's called yin and yang, which I believe you might be heard of them. There's yang in yin and there's yin in yang. Yin is called yin just because it has less yang and vice versa. There is no completely yin and yang.

Hope this helps.

Day and Night by M C Escher.

[hera]

Aquarius40, I think perhaps I may have misunderstood exactly what you were talking about, so let's try and clarify. Are you questioning your sexuality? Wondering whether you are male or female? There is much in the media these days about trans etc. and I'm thinking perhaps that is your quandry, rather than the spiritual aspect of this?

[aquarius40]

Thankyou very much both of you I appreciate everything