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Post by angelssurroundus on Apr 6, 2017 17:57:33 GMT
Dream:
Strange man took my money change. I paid $20 and received $6 change. This strange man in thick glasses and 70's style suit passed by mutable where I laid the money change and he discreetly grab it and went to the teacher to say he was using it as part of his entrance fee and would make up the difference. He was stealing from me and I demanded to get my money back, he pretended like I didn't know what I had seen. I became angry and told him to give me the money back now. He said "all right all right" and he did. He then went to pout and I was angry still angry and there was a disabled child sitting on his lap she was a little girl he said to the little girl that he that she needs to come up to me and give me a hug so that I could forgive him. When the little girl nodding her head no he threatened her by saying he would take one of her toys or do something to her if she didn't get up and give me a hug. I became angry and said to him are you literally threatening that child, did I hear what you said to her that your telling her she's got to do something for you. As I was screaming at him he put a pencil to his eyelid and I had noticed while I was screaming at him that his other eye was tearing up with blood and then I noticed that he was hurting himself on the other eye and I told him that would not make me feel sorry for him. I walked away angry because he was trying to manipulate the situation. I told my coworker everything that happened and she seemed to act like I was overreacting or making a big deal. It was odd to me that she says she has compassion for people yet acted like what happened was not such a big deal. It annoyed me.
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sparklekaz
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Post by sparklekaz on Apr 7, 2017 11:10:15 GMT
Hi Angelssuroundus,
Welcome to the dream board.
In your dream a strange man took your money change. When we dream, the symbols we see, the characters and situations, all have meaning on more than one level. Literally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Fundamentally dream characters all represent some aspect of YOU, the dreamer. A male is the assertive, aggressive, strong side of self. Rationality, practicality, intellect, consciousness and will. That which penetrates, understands! A stranger, is an aspect of self, that you do not understand, or are not yet familiar with. On another level, this man may represent a male with whom you are familiar with in waking life. Money, represents changes. It can also symbolize the energy, that we exchange with each other. Another way of looking at it, would be to believe that within your interactions in life, you are being 'short changed'. You are giving out, far more than you are receiving. Energy wise, your energy is being 'stolen' so you feel depleted and drained.
The male energy, may be an aspect of yourself that is trying to be heard, or come through. If you are allowing others to take from you, without hindrance; crossing personal boundaries, showing you disrespect. The dream may be asking you to use more of the so called 'male qualities' to strengthen your position in life. To stand stronger. Assert yourself more. Express your needs. Basically 'stop being such a pushover'. On another level, ask yourself, is there a male personality in your life, that is abusing their position; exerting too much pressure or control over you?
In dream symbolism, the teacher is 'one who shows the way'. This inner teacher comes in dreams when we are in need of guidance. Listen to your inner guidance. Learn to trust your 'gut instincts'. Spirit or higher intelligence often communicates in this way. The way in which the man in your dream tries to negotiate or argue his way out of being caught trying to steal your money (energy) indicates deception. Someone in life is trying to deceive you. Or you are deceiving yourself over the truth of a situation. Is their a control issue that you are not facing up too? This can as easily be about lack of self control, or self governance in life, as it can be about undue influence, abuse or toxic control that comes from another person. Remember, it is ultimately you who has responsibility for your own life. To allow or give that power over to another person can be a way of avoidance. Even if they are not consciously aware of it.
The little disabled child in the dream is YOU, your inner child. The inner child is that trusting, innocent aspect of self. Associated with awe and wonder. The inner child has not become bitter, skeptical or diminished in any way by the trails, sadness, disappoint and experiences of life. In your dream your inner child is disabled. This would indicate that you have lost that inner child connection. That you have lost some of the enjoyment of life, or the ability to trust. Sat on this mans lap. There are connotations within this, that again would point to the possibility that in life, a male influence is hindering progress and growth. Is someone pretending to care and nurture you, but in truth is being manipulative. What does your 'gut instinct' say about this? Just something for you to consider.
In your dream you are angry. In dreams anger represents frustration, hurt and disappointment in self, because of unexpressed emotions and needs. Even if you are angry with someone else in the dream; ultimately you are angry with yourself. Insecurity and fear are often projected onto others because we refused to acknowledge that the source of the problem lies within us. Anger can be used both positively as well as negatively. As in it forces a person to face what they want to avoid, or to do something to break the status quo. The onus is to force the dreamer to take responsibility to act.
That is the end of my interpretation Angelssuroundus, I hope it helps. Please remember that this is only my interpretation of your dream, so please only take from it that which resonates with you, or makes sense and simply leave the rest. Love and light Kaz |
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Post by angelssurroundus on Apr 13, 2017 11:36:17 GMT
Oh my gosh Kaz, you hit the nail on the head with this statement:
"Is someone pretending to care and nurture you, but in truth is being manipulative. What does your 'gut instinct' say about this? Just something for you to consider."
This is my boss. Not hearing me out is definitely happening but my gut is saying he is using me and unfortunately I can't move on till I get another job. I feel bad that my inner child is so helpless and disabled. It saddens me but it's the only part of me that is honest, pure and still trusting which angers me when that part of me is being taken advantaged of.
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sparklekaz
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Post by sparklekaz on Apr 13, 2017 13:54:22 GMT
Hi Angelssuroundus,
I am so pleased that you were able to resonate with your dream interpretation. It is good to see that your higher guidance is working so well; bringing to your attention, aspects of your waking life that 'need attention'. I know you are not alone in this situation, many have had similar experiences. The important thing I feel to take from this dream, is that you are more aware of what is going on around you now. You have woken up to 'the situation'.
Please do not feel too badly, you are a trusting and kind person, exactly the type that is vulnerable to manipulation. Unless one is of a similar disposition and so recognizes a tactic that we are familiar with, even one we have used ourselves. It is likely that this situation will have gone on for some time before alarm bells started to ring. It is a shame to have to leave a job you enjoy. If it were not for the fact you are being taken advantage of would you be happy to stay on there? Do you think if you were stronger in standing up for yourself. Said no, and meant it when asked to keep going over and beyond what you are paid to do That you could move forward in the same position, with your boss being more respectful and accepting the more assertive you?
For me the teaching element of your dream was about bringing forth the masculine more assertive qualities. To be stronger. Don't accept an infringement of your personal boundaries, in all areas of your life. I am a great believer in the adage 'if you have made a decision or choice to change your life, then the universe will conspire to help you'. Running away from this scenario will not help. Because, I believe that this situation, will keep on occurring in your life. Not exactly, in the same way, but similar in as much as you will on encountering the same problem, if you do not learn to stand up for yourself more. By all means move on, but make sure its a free will choice to improve your life or progress; rather being forced into it, because of the behaviour of others.
Love and light
Kaz
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