Negative coincidence?

[donq]

I believe most (if not all) of you are already familiar with synchronicity (meaningful coincidence). What I'm going to talk about is something in the opposite. I don't know how to call it. So, let's call it negative coincidences. It's kind of Murphy's Law (which says "Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong") but not really the same as.
Let me give you an example.
I wanted to do something so abd. But no matter how hard I tried, it still didn't work, with no reason. I mean normally it should work after I put more time and effort on it, but it didn't. Anyway, just after I gave up and accepted to be a loser, I learned (in an unexplainable way) that I was so lucky that it didn't work. Because if I could make it, it would be so terrible. Very very terrible outcome.
But why I could not (fore) see that terrible outcome in the first place? What blinded me?    

[gruntal]

I think part of the law of attraction and karma is that you will be spared or even protected from things you don't want or deserve. Alas the bug probably goes on to bite somebody else. Maybe you were destined for bigger and better things. Now you can look forward to real disaster!

[empowers]

The filter through which you judge the event makes it negative or positive. In reality, the event just exists. The belief of law of attraction states that the universe will bring you what you desire and will do so through the vast tapestry of your moment-to-moment existence. If you were someone who KNEW that all things that happened to you were the way that the energy was moving to bring you to what you want, you would not have judged the event as negative.

Those of us who have had the privilege of understanding after the fact, use these experiences to help us not judge events in the future.

In your circumstance, the largest part of you had a vibration that was contrary to the outcome of the event had it worked. Therefore, the physical manifestation of it not working was a positive event.

And now you can use this example to not judge a future event as negative while it's happening

[donq]

Hi empowers,

Welcome to our forum.

As this is my thread, I just want to tell you that I read your post and thanks for your input. It was a good one.
(Recently I've been a bit busy and didn't come here so often like before).
I also like George's post (gruntal's). I used to wonder why most (if not all) real spiritual persons could never done bad things, no matter how hard they tried. For example, lying, not to mention killing. While worldly people lie so easily, a spiritual person cannot, even he/she tried. And if you cannot lie, it will make to live in this (worldly) world so hard. :-)