Will get two thieves or none?
Feb 28, 2015 9:59:58 GMT
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Post by donq on Feb 28, 2015 9:59:58 GMT
There's a saying "like cures like." In my language it means using something sharp like a needle, to get a splinter (which is also sharp) out of your foot.
For example, one of remedies for water in ear is adding more water. Dropping few drops of water into the affected ear. Once done, turn immediately to the other side. And you can feel the water pour out of your ear.
Anyway, if I "set a thief to catch a thief", I might get two thieves? hahaha.
In psychotherapy, there's a technique called, "paradoxical psychotherapy" which is like a reverse psychological technique. (when you try to get someone to do something by telling them to do the opposite).
Let me give you an example from the wonderful story that Milton Erickson told that shows how resistance can be used to solve a problem. When Erickson was a small boy growing up on a farm, it was raining and his father was trying to bring one of their horses into the barn. His father pulled and pulled at the horse's rein, but the more he pulled the more horse resisted and the further the horse pulled away from the barn. Little Milton observed his father's dilemma and asked if he could help. His father smiled and agreed to let him lend a hand. Milton sized up the situation and grabbed the horse by the rein. He then turned the horse in the opposite direction from the barn and began to pull the horse by the rein. Naturally, the horse resisted like he had done to his father, but this time the horse backed little Milton right into the barn.
As for paradoxical psychotherapy, it's a bit more complicated. Here's an example: The therapist asks the patient to deliberately have the symptom at the therapist's office and/or outside the office. The idea is that, if a symptom is involuntary, having it voluntarily means the behavior can be controlled and is no longer a symptom. If the person can have it voluntarily, this means he/she can also not have it voluntarily.
There's also a Zen story.
A student said to his teacher, “My mind is anxious. Please pacify it.”
The teacher replied, “Bring me your mind, and I will pacify it.”
The student said, “Although I’ve sought it, I cannot find it.”
“There,” The teacher replied, “I have pacified your mind.”
For example, one of remedies for water in ear is adding more water. Dropping few drops of water into the affected ear. Once done, turn immediately to the other side. And you can feel the water pour out of your ear.
Anyway, if I "set a thief to catch a thief", I might get two thieves? hahaha.
In psychotherapy, there's a technique called, "paradoxical psychotherapy" which is like a reverse psychological technique. (when you try to get someone to do something by telling them to do the opposite).
Let me give you an example from the wonderful story that Milton Erickson told that shows how resistance can be used to solve a problem. When Erickson was a small boy growing up on a farm, it was raining and his father was trying to bring one of their horses into the barn. His father pulled and pulled at the horse's rein, but the more he pulled the more horse resisted and the further the horse pulled away from the barn. Little Milton observed his father's dilemma and asked if he could help. His father smiled and agreed to let him lend a hand. Milton sized up the situation and grabbed the horse by the rein. He then turned the horse in the opposite direction from the barn and began to pull the horse by the rein. Naturally, the horse resisted like he had done to his father, but this time the horse backed little Milton right into the barn.
As for paradoxical psychotherapy, it's a bit more complicated. Here's an example: The therapist asks the patient to deliberately have the symptom at the therapist's office and/or outside the office. The idea is that, if a symptom is involuntary, having it voluntarily means the behavior can be controlled and is no longer a symptom. If the person can have it voluntarily, this means he/she can also not have it voluntarily.
There's also a Zen story.
A student said to his teacher, “My mind is anxious. Please pacify it.”
The teacher replied, “Bring me your mind, and I will pacify it.”
The student said, “Although I’ve sought it, I cannot find it.”
“There,” The teacher replied, “I have pacified your mind.”