Dream Interpretation :)

[mia1982]

Hey All



Hope your weekend is going well. I would greatly appreciate a dream that I would like interpreted if possible.

I will tell you some background first followed by dream I had. My
situation is that there is a guy I have come to like through ballroom
lessons since March last year but I was never interested in him at all
whatsoever. However, it was only from around October or so that I
thought he is someone I would like to get to know and I have grown to
like him quite a lot since then. Someone quite different from what I
normally would go for funnily enough!! Nothing has happened at all - he
doesn't even know I like him that way I don't think. We get along quite
well though. At times I think he does feel the same but not sure.
Usually when I talk to him its just small talk as I fear if I keep
asking questions he will wonder why I am...I know I know.. silly..I
think too much LOL

Anyway yesterday I had a longer discussion with him about our interests
and I didn't think too much just went with the flow...funny that
something so easy can be hard esp with the person you like.



So the same night I had a dream. It was about me telling him that I have
had feelings for him since October and he responded that he felt the
same and I asked him from when did he start and he replied around the
same time. I then asked him why didnt you tell me, he said he just
couldn't.

The dream felt nice and I felt happy about it. I wonder if this dream
came up due to what had happened earlier on in the day. Any thoughts??



Bright blessings

xox

[sparklekaz]

Hi Mia,

Welcome to the dream board.

When a women dreams about a man, it can have meaning on many levels. A man in dream time is someone we admire. Our ideal. Whether it is someone we know or a stranger, the man appears in a women's dream because he represents qualities she admires or wishes to emulate. On another level, it may be that this person has qualities that we do not like and are a mirror of characteristics within ourselves that need working on.

The conversation you had with this man in your dream, is you expressing your real desires and feelings where he is concerned. In waking time you would be too shy, but when we dream, our inhibitions are down and we say the things that are truly in our hearts. The fact that he responded to you in a similar fashion may be an indication that unconsciously, you have picked up on this attraction being mutual. Often people give off signals that are very subtle. In waking time, we often do not notice, but when we sleep and the unconscious mind takes over, this information is filtered down and assimilated.

On another level, it may be that because of your attraction towards him, you have formed a intuitive connection and are sensing his true feelings. Either way, I believe that your higher self is communicating to you through your dreams, nudging you towards taking the next step. That of being honest about how you feel.

Ultimately, the choice is always yours, and if you do not feel the time is right to take that step then don't. But you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. It may be that this man is very shy and is reluctant to make the first move. If it does turn out that this attraction is one sided, you have nothing to feel embaressed about, and I am sure if you do it in a subtle way, all he will be left feeling, is immensely flattered and you will have been true to yourself.

This is only my interpretation of your dream Mia, so please only take from it that which is meaningful to you and simply leave the rest. I would appreciate your feedback.

Love and light
Kaz

[mia1982]

Thanks so much Kaz for your insight.
I guess I am "fearful" if things do not work out the way I am wanting it to in this situation. Based on past experiences things do not work out the way I hope so I do not want to be disappointed again.
In the past there was a guy I had a strong connection with (perhaps a past life) and in the dreams it felt so real/vivid as though I could feel him, although when I think back in those dreams he did not say anything - was no talking between us from what I recall - anyway long story short I did tell him how I felt in the end as I had this strong urge to do so, but it was not reciprocated - hence in this situation from what I wrote above, am not wanting to tell him how I feel in case am rejected again

[sparklekaz]

Hi Mia,

One other interpretation of interacting with others in our dreams be they a man in a women's dream or a women in a man's dream is that they all represent aspects of ourselves. So for a women the man in her dream also symbolises her male energy. We all carry male and female energy within, regardless of our gender. So this man, the qualities that draw you to him are being shown to you so that you might bring out more these very qualities within yourself.

What is it about him that you like, or admire? Think about it. Everyone we meet in life is a mirror. Reflecting back at us the positive and the negative aspects of self. I believe they come into our lives for a reason, to teach us something very important. It may be that the purpose of this dream is to help you recognise the great qualities you have within yourself. To learn to trust yourself more, to like and love yourself more. There is nothing more attractive then meeting someone who is comfortable in their own skin and content with who they are. When we love ourselves more we respect ourselves more and draw to us those who are similar. Allow this friendship to develop naturally and if something is going to come of it, it will.

I hope this helps Mia. Remember you are a beautiful person in your own right. Just because one person has rejected you in the past does not mean it will keep on happening. When you are with this person, just be yourself. When we stop trying to impress others, the true beauty of our own personality starts to shine through and we become the kind of person they like to be around.

Love and light
Kaz

[mia1982]

Thanks Kaz
I am just the type of person who rather get things out in the open and deal with it head on - however am always stuck in such situations - on what to do if I should tell him or not. I have a feelings its mutual (could be wishful thinking!!!) but not 100% sure . Been rejected twice..so twice bitten thrice lucky? lol. So as mentioned I just do not want to go through another disappointment again.
Am pretty happy with my life and comfortable in my own skin as you mentioned but still a bit cautious.