dreams about a girl

[jacob123]

I have had multiple dreams about this very attractive girl I knew for three years and always viewed her as the most beautiful intellegent girl I had ever meet. I I keep finding lots of common intest with her as time moves on.

A few months ago the first dream came along was in a dream where I remember the urban environment and had a great deal of control and a clear view of the skies. I would hover whereever I please and I watched the city evolve overtime. there was a certain point where the city got really big. high tech with machinery, computers and there was a skyscraper building I hovered towards. It almost seemed like a outdoor chemistry lab with with all sorts of equipment. The backround changed and the sky was purple and had pink specks like plasma and the buildings had a redish tint to them. I was walking on a spiral steel staircase wearing a lab coat and worked with the machinery. With a labcoat on I went back to the staircase and saw her standing there. I walked towards her and she looked a either sad or worried or both, I tried hugging her in attempt to show I care about her, and that is when I woke up.

The second time I remember I was in a big building that felt like a school. I saw a teacher that I ussually get along with well running a ice cream shop. Then I went exploring and found her walking with all her friends, so I approached to say hi, at first she looked a little shy and I was afraid she did not like me. So then I went back to that ice cream shop and the teacher gave me some advice to make me feel better. then he hired me to serve ice cream to people. so I saw her and her friends walk up and they ordered some ice cream. I will never forget her smile on her face when she got the ice cream...

I woke up, went to school and I told the teacher about this dream when I had the oppertunity to talk to him. I was suroprised to see my math class went to tim hortons on the same day I had the dream. She was present there too and talked about her favorite treats when she was beside me.

The third time I was dreaming about me traveling through a big mall looking a massive lego sets, my favorite childhood toy and exploring the mall. I eventually end up bumping into her feeling kind of awkward when she expressed her feelings to me of how she felt about me. One the first thing she said was that I was doing great. she then said I was asking for too much love, and shortly after said "so many lies". I got scared and woke up, seeking clarifycation on was it me who lied or was it her who lied... That day I ended up going to the mall...

She appears again this time I was with a group of high school people having coffie when I said no i imidiatly noticed her presence. she walked up to me with a handful of cash and asked me "Want to shoot some guns?". I said yes and we walked through the bushes and I once again woke up. Again, I was going out with my big brother that day, I spent some money with a handful of change surprising similer with the one she handed me, and my brother offered me to shoot a 1 caliber rifle at a few cans... really unexpected to find my shooting things.

it seems as time progresses the more I see her in my dreams. It is almost feels like she is with me when I know we are so far apart. I find it strange that the dreams were about events that happened later in my life and not before, I almost feel like my dreams create my reality... if that is possible.

I enjoyed all of these dreams even if some of them had a few scares in them. and happy to hear a responses, symbolism etc.
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Update
Here is a image of the that steel staircase I was talking about.
postimage.org/image/qy7h3rkvv/

[sparklekaz]

Hi Jacob,

Welcome to the dream board.

In dream symbology on one level the people we see are all aspects of the Self. They represent, qualities, traits, strengths and weaknesses within the dreamer. On another level, their positive qualities are what we admire, aspire to or wish to emulate. Their weaknesses, indicating there is work to be done in this area within ourselves.

For a man to dream about a women, it is usually connected to his 'ideal'. As you have said yourself, this girl is someone you have liked and admired for some time.

The urban environment in your first dream is about networking and community. It shows intense networking of people and parts of the self. It may also indicate that in life you are being forced to communicate and co operate with others who have similar interests to you.

There is very much a technological theme to this community. As you have said there is a lot of high tech equipment and computer technology there. In life, is this an area of interest of yours? Do you intend to work in this environment when you finish your studies? If so the dream is simply showing that there is a desire within you to be part of this community. It also shows that you like to exchange idea's and share information with others who have a similar interest.

In the dream you hover above. Flying in dreams is a very powerful act. It shows you have the ability to free yourself from physical limitations. Many people who dream they are flying have lucid dreams. Lucid dreaming, is where the dreamer becomes aware within the dream, that it is a dream. With practice they can then take control of the dream, and guide it in a direction they want to go. This ability can be very useful, for those who want to use the dream state, to problem solve, or to face their fears.

Flying in a dream, also shows that you have the ability to rise above a problem and see it from a higher perspective. When we can set aside emotional attachment to an outcome, it often gives more clarity to a situation and the ability to find a solution easier. One building that seems to stand out for you is the tall skyscraper. In dream symbology this can be a analogy to the tower. The tower symbolises Spiritual power, a point of clarity and vision. A very spiritual symbol. I believe this points to latent spiritual/intuitive abilities within you.

Within this building you notice chemistry equipment. In life, is chemistry an interest of yours? Symbolically, a laboratory is a work area. A place for life plans and idea's. It also reflects where you are in life and how well you are staying on top of things. In your waking time, have you been giving some thought to your future? Making plans and decisions on what you are going to do next academically? A laboratory is also the place of the alchemist, creating, blending life experiences up to date. Using them to understand and transcend.

In life have you noticed an manifestation of intuitive abilities. Either through your dreams, or a sense, a knowing of things about the people you interact with that you had not been told of. But somehow knew and it was later verified? Be aware and take note if you start to notice these things happening to you. There is nothing to fear, it is simply the development of your natural intuitive abilities.

To see the sky in a dream is saying to you, 'the only way is up'! There are no limitations to what you can achieve in life, if you set your mind to it. Use this ability wisely, to move towards your highest goals. It also represents freedom and expansion. Indicating that you have much potential within and almost limitless space in which to grow. So all very positive especially in connection to your studies and career choices in life, Jacob.

The colours you see in the sky are purple and pink. The colour purple represents; Wisdom, knowledge and divine protection. These are very high spiritual colours. Indicating that within you, your connection to your higher self the source of all is very strong. Your intuitive senses are very active. This does not surprise me in the least, especially in light of the earlier symbolism in your dream. So for me this is a further affirmation, regarding your potential to develop intuitively and spiritually.

This ability has manifested itself already quite strongly, as you tell me that several of the scenario's within your dreams, have come to pass. These are called 'prophetic dreams'. The colour Pink, symbolises love. I would say this indicates you are also a very loving person and love is clearly very important to you, and very much on your mind at the moment. Especially in connection to your 'dream girl'.

The spiral staircase is going upwards. Staircases symbolise the direction of life. Going upwards indicates you are going in the right direction. The fact that it is a spiral may be saying to you that although you are rising upwards, you may find at times that you go about things in a different way then what you expected. This is all part of the experiences of life and the way in which life can change from moment to moment. Be versatile in your thinking and adaptive to whatever changes you encounter. Whatever happens, you will keep coming back to the same point and make steady progress moving upwards and forward in life.

At the top of the staircase you meet your dream girl. You say that this girl is beautiful and intelligent. She symbolises what it is you look for in a partner and companion in life. Whether 'she' proves to be the 'one' or not is not important Jacob. It is what she represents to you that is. At this point, you only see her outward qualities. That which is obvious. If you get to know her more you will find our what the inner person is like.

Looking at the overall atmosphere of your dream. You are a very loving and spiritual person. Who you connect with and who becomes important to you in the future, I believe will share these qualities. The fact that she keeps appearing to you in your dreams, and the fact that you do have a predisposition to prophetic dreams, indicates that at some point you will be given the opportunity to get to know her better. I hope that the reality meets your dream expectations. I believe, you will know when the time comes.

This dream has a lot of powerful symbolism in it Jacob. Though you feel it is about the girl, it is really all about you. So I will leave it here for now to give you time to digest what I have shared with you and do the other dreams later.

This is only my interpretation of your dream Jacob. So please only take from it that which is meaningful to you and leave the rest. I would appreciate your feedback.

Love and light
Kaz