Two Very Different Dreams...I THINK!

[DeeUSA]

Hello All,

I was reading some other posts and someone mentioned that their dreams had been "blocked" and were now coming more regularly. I wondered if that was possible (dreams being blocked) because it seemed that for such a long time I wasn't dreaming. Now my dreams come every night. Some I can remember (which I always immediately write down) and some I can't.

I had two dreams on February 13th and 15th. They seemed so different, but since I'm new to this maybe they're not as different as I'm perceiving.

I'm very open to any interpretations that is offered and I thank you in advance.

I've copy these dreams directly from my phone (I always enter them in my memos on my phone) so please forgive me if they sound incomplete.

Thank you so very much

Dee


February 13th dream

Cleaning the outside of the house. There were hedges that were overgrown. Me a woman and a man (both of them were attractive) were trying to decide what to do to make the house look open and airy. The front steps were in the middle. We were working on the side of our left. The hedge to the far left was totally overgrown and we knew what to do. The hedges just to the left of the front door were manicured but none us like how it made the front look. There was also this narrow window that was 2 pane (one on top one on bottom) that was broken. We were debating on how to fix it. First we decided (we still stnding in the front yard) that the manicured hedges needed to be lowered to open up that area. Then remove some hedges but I guess they were vines from around the window (like a frame) and the fix the window. The top was off the track and leaned in. Me and the guy wanted to push it back the other way but the woman was afraid we'd break it and the homeowner would had a hole to deal with.


February 15th dream:

I was in some type of club and we took a bus trip. We were all on a coach bus. Me and I guess my roommate were packing up our stuff. I remember looking under something I believe it was a bed and finding paper money. But they we're missing half of the bill. Then one of th bills was torn down the middle all the way to the edge but connected at the edge. My roommate was leaving a lot of important things behind. I think she thought we were coming back or something (she was younger) like that. I had to start packing up everything (which seemed like mosly my stuff) and while I was packing the bus left us. I guess we had no way of letting them know. However later on we went to what seemed like a wine shop but they had a way to get in touch with the guide. It was a lot of customers there so we had to wait but then the guy recognized us and called us to the front.


Once again, I welcome any interpretations.

God bless you all,
Dee

[sparklekaz]

Hi Dee,

The first dream.

In Dream symbology, the House, represents YOU the dreamer, the SELF. Where you are in the house and what is going on provides insight into many aspects of your life. The outside of the house, is more to do with the external things that are going on around you. Although it is still an extension of you.

Hedges represent growth. If the hedges are lining your pathway or road, it suggests spiritual protection and guidance. If as your hedge is, it is hedging you in, it would indicate that there are too many things going on in your life, conflicting thoughts and idea's, or too many demands on your time. Things that are hedging or boxing you in. Your hedge is overgrown, and needs trimming. So you can see for yourself, your hedge needs trimming back. Are there things going on in your life that are creating this situation for you Dee. Conflict, a need to re organise your thoughts, a need, to simplify and clear out, what is no longer needed? Only you know the answer to this.

You say in the dream you are working on your left side. The left is usually connected to the female energy. It is also symbolic of receiving. The right side is associated with the male energy and of giving. The left side is connected to the unconscious the intuitive, the right side the conscious. Looking at your dream from this perspective, it would indicate that you have work to do on your feminine side.. receiving love and allowing others to help you. Does this apply to you, are you the kind of person, who likes to be in control. Finds it hard to ask for help, feeling it might indicate a weakness on your part. As the left side is about working with the unconscious mind, your intuitive side, do you think you would you benefit from taking the time to develop this side to your spiritual nature. Taking time out to spend quietly introspectively. Going within, meditating?

Windows in dream symbology are about being able to see beyond any given situation; expanded awareness, perception. You say your window is narrow, this might indicate that your perspective at the moment, your ability to see beyond or above a current situation is restricted. Just how restricted depends on the narrowness of the window. But I would say this indicates it is impaired. You are not seeing the big picture, or have been caught up in a single minded way of viewing something, someone or situation. Does this mean something to you?

Glass symbolises clarity. The window in your window is cracked, indicating that your view of life through this window is not only impaired, but something has broken. Again, this maybe connected to the situation, person or issue, you are looking at, with a set mindset or narrow perspective. Only you know if this is meaningful to you.

This dream ends in a positive way, because you are discussing ways in which to fix things. The man and women in your dream are all aspects of you. So a lot of inner dialog going on. You are examining ways to repair the situation, or at least make things better. But you can't agree. So there is indecisiveness here, and uncertainty, and the worry that you may inadvertently make a situation worse. A bit like we do in life, when we want to move forward with a problem in life, but unsure of the best way to go with it. Sound familiar!!

I would say in this dream, there are hints to help you. Connect with your feminine side, your unconscious, intuitive side. Accept the help if it is offered from other women in your life. That is where you will get the support you need from. Take time out to sit quietly and meditate. If you are unsure as the best way to move forward with your life, then do nothing for the time being. Do not actively pursue any course of action, until you have found the inner stillness you need within, to be able to rise above your current life, situation and to be able to see things more clearly. A time for retreating within and distancing yourself from the situation emotionally, only by doing this, will you find that your perspective will shift.

This is only my interpretation of your first dream for you Dee. Please only take from it that which is meaningful to you and leave the rest.

Love and light
Kaz

[DeeUSA]

Hi Kaz,

Thanks so much for your thoughts and interpretation of my first dream.

With regards to the hedges (actually much of your interpretation) yes that makes perfect sense to me. Especially in light of the being a part of the healing session on Friday and then rereading this it makes even more sense! My soon to be ex husband left a lot of burdens on me to handle and I don't which way to turn to fix them and now because of that I'm just sitting and doing nothing from being overwhelmed. I'm not sure what is no longer needed but I will work on figuring that out.

With regards to my left and right side, everything you said hit home. I am in a position that in order to survive right now I basically have to ask for handouts. It bothers the heck out of me and I hate doing it. I feel less than because I do need charity from friends and strangers. I'm definitely a control freak, I mean a real control freak, but right now in my current situation I have absolutely no control and that is killing me. I don't even have control over my marriage. It actually makes me very mad that I can't control anything right now.

Yes it does mean something that I can't see beyond my present situation, because I can't lol. I can't see how I'm gonna get out of the mess my husband left me with. I can see past the fact that my husband is divorcing me. I can't see where money for gas in the car is coming for or even money to buy dog food for that matter. lol So yes I have a very narrow way of seeing things right now.

With regards to the man and woman trying to decide how to fix things. Yes that makes sense as well. I'm constantly going over any ideal or way to fix my current situation. And then I don't know if I should keep pushing to change things or sit and let it resolve itself. I'll try to do something to get out and it gets blocked and then I'll be upset and decide to sit still and then nothing happens and then I'll push again. I have no guidance on how to get out of this and its wearing me down.

And I guess that leads us to your next paragraph. Those are my answers. Its funny, I've read your post 3 times, but this is the first time I've paid attention to this paragraph:

"I would say in this dream, there are hints to help you. Connect with your feminine side, your unconscious, intuitive side. Accept the help if it is offered from other women in your life. That is where you will get the support you need from. Take time out to sit quietly and meditate. If you are unsure as the best way to move forward with your life, then do nothing for the time being. Do not actively pursue any course of action, until you have found the inner stillness you need within, to be able to rise above your current life, situation and to be able to see things more clearly. A time for retreating within and distancing yourself from the situation emotionally, only by doing this, will you find that your perspective will shift."

These are the things that I've started working on this past week. Except for the accepting help from the woman part. My help has come from older women (and my church) they've been things done here and there to help me and my daughter get by. But I wonder if it will be a woman who helps me to get out this major situation I'm in right now.

Thank you for your input Kaz. I'm going to read this a few more times to digest it further.

God bless you,
Dee

[sparklekaz]

Hi Dee,

Your Second Dream.

You were in some sort of Club. This may be some kind of group, a place to relax and socialise. Groups represent uniting aspects of the self. Being part of a collective. Within this club or group, you find a place, where you can meet others like yourself. Somewhere you can make friends and enjoy yourself. Does the timing of this dream coincide with finding this group 'The God Light'? Or something significant happening around other communities you are part of, your church for instance?

You say you were all on a coach a bus. Modes of travel in dream symbology, represent your personal energy, how you get around in life. So being on a bus as a passenger, you have embarked on a journey, with this group of people. As a passenger, you are trusting your instincts and going alone with the group. So this is very much about being carried along by something. I think it is important to remember, to retain your sense of individuality and to use your own discernment.

So while it feels right at this time, for where you are at now on your personal life journey, to be carried along, remember, you are still in charge of your own life. That is very important for you to know Dee, that no matter how much you feel powerless or out of control of your life at times. You are not!! You still own your own power. Feeling powerless is an illusion.

For now you are content to go with the group. You do not know where you are going, as you do not mention a destination. So this aspect of the journey is about embarking on something new and going into the unknown. A leap of faith!

Packing up your things, preparing to leave, is all about preparation for a change for movement . So you are gathering up the things you will need for your journey. This is about your own personal needs, aspects of self, your strengths, beliefs and ideals that you carry with you. A bed in dream symbolism is a bridge between the conscious and unconscious. Indicating to me that these dream messages are a way of your unconscious mind, communicating itself, trying to make itself heard, helping you in your conscious waking thoughts. Have you noticed how powerfully a positive or negative dream can affect your waking mood and emotions.

The money symbolises, changes coming into your life. coins represent small changes, notes represent big ones. Its interesting in your dream, that the notes are torn down the middle. For me the thought is that the big changes are today with losing half of yourself, or 'your other half'. Something that is very important to you.

The young room mate in your dream is an aspect of you Dee. Its as if she represents the part of you that is more idealistic and hopeful. She still believes that things will work out and you will be able to return once you have been on your journey, to where you were before. You the older one, is more realistic, and cannot see it happening. So this is indicative of the inner feelings and thoughts about this move, this change. You know that things are going to change and will never be the same again, but part of you is hoping that things will stay the same. Does this make sense to you?

The bus, that will take you on your journey leaves without you. You are taking too long over deciding what to take with you on your journey, in other words, there are things from your old life, that you do not want to leave behind and this is delaying you and holding you back. So this aspect to me is about 'letting go'. In spite of this, you find a way of getting in touch with 'the guide', who was able to help you to catch the bus after all. In dream symbology a guide represents the 'higher self', or advanced spiritual being (God) or mystical inner teacher, who is guiding you along the path of life. This part I think is self explanatory Dee. It is telling you, that you are not alone on this journey, that you have help. You are being looked after, watched over and protected. I would trust in that!!

This is only my interpretation of your dream Dee, please only take from it that which is meaningful to you and leave the rest. I hope I have been able to shed some light on it for you.

Love and light
Kaz

[DeeUSA]

Hi Kaz,

Thank you so much for your interpretation. Yes the club would definitely be God's Light since is where I spend most of time. :-) And I'm assuming that the people I have embarked on a journey with would also be God's Light.

Regarding the coins and notes. Its very interesting that the notes (paper money) being torn down the middle represent me losing my other half...I can definitely relate to that. My only question, however, is that in the dream they were torn down the middle but each one them were still attached at the end of the tear. Is there any significance in that?

Regarding the young room mate vs older person. Yes it all makes sense to me. On the surface and mentally I know what I have to do or to allow what needs to happen...happen. However deep down in my heart when I don't let my head get into I still feel like things don't have to be the way theyre going....I'm still working to resolve those feelings.

The last paragraph of the reading. I keep being told that I'm not alone and that I'm being looked after and protected. Its comforting to hear that, but why I can't I feel it? I still feel very alone and helpless. I will of course trust in the words that are coming to me...just wondering that's all. :-)

Kaz thank you once again and many blessings to you!

Dee