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lonely
Feb 19, 2012 0:58:59 GMT
Post by purplerosie on Feb 19, 2012 0:58:59 GMT
Am all alone tonight. Feel like I am talking to myself.Inward is the only direction that my thoughts go in these days.I dont have any friends I can rely on. Know lots of people at work, neighbours, but, these days I dont feel people really give me a chance.I was in this relationship, before. I felt he didnt love me and i found this strength to leave now, i feel I am repeating all the old mistakes. I am so alone. It's time I admitted that fact. I feel alone inside my heart. I dont like feeling like this. I am in denial about it, too. Instead of living life to the full i go to the duvet and sleep for long periods of time. all day sometimes, then I am up all night sometimes. Like tonight. Wondering what I am doing to myself. I am lonely. I now realise what is aching my heart. But, what am i yearning for ?
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sparklekaz
Someone asked me.. What is your religion? I said, "All the paths that lead to the light".
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lonely
Feb 21, 2012 15:02:40 GMT
Post by sparklekaz on Feb 21, 2012 15:02:40 GMT
Dear Rosie, Welcome to The God Light.  I am very sorry to hear you are feeling so low. I think we all have experienced feeling like that at different times in our lives. Feeling isolated and lonely, even when surrounded by many people. It sounds as if you have been through some difficult times. It is only too easy, when we are feeling as you are now, to retreat even further away from the world. Staying in bed and sleeping is a typical reaction to feeling depressed. Which might offer some temporary respite from how you are feeling, but ultimately will only make things worse. So hard as it might be, its important to push yourself to do more and to get out more even if you don't want to. Have you spoken to your GP or Doctor about how you are feeling? Please don't suffer in silence, because there is help out there for you. Think about re starting the things that once gave you pleasure. Reconnect with old friends you have drifted away from. I think you would be surprised how glad they will be to speak to you again, and it will also be the motivation you need to start getting out and about again. I am so glad you found your way to this forum. We are very fortunate, in that we have some really lovely people here, who are friendly and enjoy talking about their interests and sharing their spiritual experiences. I am sure you will make friends here. I Believe I saw you in the chat room a day or two ago. I hope you come back and visit us there again soon, and also started replying to some of the posts on the forum, that catch your interest. I would love to hear more about you. Love and light Kaz |
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lonely
Feb 21, 2012 19:24:22 GMT
Post by DeeUSA on Feb 21, 2012 19:24:22 GMT
Dear Rosie,
You are not alone. I am right there with you. I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what's helped me. Mine is a failed marriage...enough said. Friends? I've lost them all. Family? Too embarrassed to talked to. Sleep? What sleep? Laying in bed all day? Not an option...for me.
When I feel alone I go to the chat room. I'm there A LOT! lol I submerge myself into reading the posts on the message boards and chatting in the chat room until I fall asleep. Before here, I didn't dream (at least I don't think I wasn't dreaming if that's possible). Now my dreams give me important insight on me.
Hang in there Rosie and know that you're not alone.
Peace and blessings to you.
Dee
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lonely
Feb 28, 2012 1:01:32 GMT
Post by sylvie on Feb 28, 2012 1:01:32 GMT
I've joined the forum tonight, and I too feel lonely. My hubby died a year ago, and we did everything together. Now I'm older and it's hard to make friends. But you know it will help joining a site like this, you can say what you like, there is always somebody that understands, so your not alone. take care and keep in touch Sylvie x
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lonely
Feb 28, 2012 1:43:55 GMT
Post by Leon on Feb 28, 2012 1:43:55 GMT
Hi Sylvie and Rosie, welcome to the group, please try to pop in our chat room, and I will do my best to cheer you up We have many members who feel the same as you, and I myself am not a person who would leave someone in distress, so please come and speak to me and our many lovely members within our chat room.. The link is on every page of the forum and main site... God bless you all. |
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lonely
Feb 28, 2012 1:51:20 GMT
Post by jazz on Feb 28, 2012 1:51:20 GMT
Am all alone tonight. Feel like I am talking to myself.Inward is the only direction that my thoughts go in these days.I dont have any friends I can rely on. Know lots of people at work, neighbours, but, these days I dont feel people really give me a chance.I was in this relationship, before. I felt he didnt love me and i found this strength to leave now, i feel I am repeating all the old mistakes. I am so alone. It's time I admitted that fact. I feel alone inside my heart. I dont like feeling like this. I am in denial about it, too. Instead of living life to the full i go to the duvet and sleep for long periods of time. all day sometimes, then I am up all night sometimes. Like tonight. Wondering what I am doing to myself. I am lonely. I now realise what is aching my heart. But, what am i yearning for ? :)Hi love, I feel for you and understand where you are emotionally, the good news is, you do have the strength to leave what isnt for your highest of good.  We go through alot of differnt emotions, when we leave a r/ship, we do need to give ourselves time and space to reflect on that r/ship in our alone time, but not lonely time, alone time is good for us to get in touch with our higher selves and to understand why certain things happen in our lives and why they turn out they way they do. After many years and i am a dinosaur in age lol, i have chosen to have karmic learning r/ships, not knowing why my r/ships didnt work out, i thought there must be something wrong with me, and that i was doins something wrong to make my r/ships fail, until i learned that most of us will have karmic learning r/ships, before we know and understand ourselves and others and why we bring certain people into our lives as potential partners. Karmic r/ships teach us(if we are willing to learn) about ourselves, our faults, our insecurities, our needs, our wants, they open us up to our true selves, and it is when that happens you know and understand what you do want as opposed to what you do not want with a partner, some even choose not to have a partner in their lives after experiencing many karmic learning lessons, they find they are happier on their own, and what ever is meant to be for us will be and we choose that from our free will and choices. We are totally responsible for who we choose to bring into our lives as a potential partner, the Universe sends us the right karmic r/ship lessons for us to learn from each other if so choose to do so, every r/ship is perfect for us . for our learning, and time shows to us if we are willing to see, why we chose a certain person to come into our lives. Learning from our experiences, with a person we chose to bring into our lives, is the purpose of that r/ship, we teach and learn from each other, some will learn , some will not, some will teach a certain lesson with a partner, but the partner may not want to recieve or acknowledge that teaching, we are not responsible for how another takes it when we feel we need to leave a r/ship, if we have tried our best and have been kind, loving, and supportive but dont receive that back, then we have the right to move on from that r/ship without guilt learning from that r/ship we need to be loved and appreciated back. Please dont feel as if your life is over, we all have hiccups, in everyday life, r/ships come into our lives to help us understand ourselves better, to help us love ourselves ,nurture ourselves and to know how we do want to be with partner or without a partner. Regardless of what you are going through now, new beginings always come after endings, take all the wisdom you have learned from any r/ship you have had and take it with you into the future making wiser choices for yourself from what you have experienced. Love is a feeling , you cannot think does he love me , you need to feel that in your soul, you will get better and better as you go along your journey of learning about r/ships. When we have graduated from our karmic learning lessons, the Universe knows we are ready to receive the right one into our lives and will set up the perfect meeting place and time for that to happen, we all meet our soul mates(if that is what we choose) in divine timing and when we are ready to recieve the right one, love on a soul mate level is when two souls energy meet and merge as one, it is our energy that attracts the energy we need to be as one, and when that happens you just know you have meet your soul mate on a soul level of love. You will be fine, please give yourself more self worth as i feel you dont, and you give away too much of yourself to others without the same in return, you need a strong person in your life, not a wishy washy person who doesnt know what they want, thats what popped in for you from spirit you do know what you want you just dont believe at the moment you can have it, but i so see you happy with a person who will fit like a glove with you so focus on that the Universe wants us to be happy and have all the goods things in life, so start beleiving more in what can happen for you in the future, now is only now not the future... we can go on repeating the same over and over or have something different it is up to us, our happiness or unhappiness begins with us we can always change a situation that isnt loving,right,happy or healthy for our highest of good. Love and light. jazz |
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Someone asked me.. What is your religion? I said, "All the paths that lead to the light".
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lonely
Feb 28, 2012 12:59:26 GMT
Post by sparklekaz on Feb 28, 2012 12:59:26 GMT
Dear Sylvie, It is lovely to meet you, welcome to The God Light. Though it does not take away the feelings of loneliness we have, it does I think make it easier to bear, when we realise we are not alone in this. We have many who come to the chat room who have been bereaved as you have and have found friendship and comfort in sharing their feelings. We are open 24/7 and no matter what time it is, you will nearly always find someone who is happy to talk. Do not suffer in silence, if you cannot sleep, grab a hot drink and come in and say Hello Jazz, it is lovely to meet you too, thank you so much for sharing your kind and thoughtful words of insight with us. I can tell from reading your other posts, that you are a lady, who knows what it is like to feel deep pain, loss and loneliness. You come across as very loving and empathic. I do hope I get the opportunity to meet you both in our chat room and get to know you better. Love and light Kaz |
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lonely
Apr 16, 2012 2:40:38 GMT
Post by bethc1031 on Apr 16, 2012 2:40:38 GMT
I do feel the same however I am not as strong as you and have been unable to leave I am mum to 4 and I know alone is awfully horrible for me to say when I'm gifted with my baby's but my light is dull my spirit is usually able to get me thru However its just not helping
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Someone asked me.. What is your religion? I said, "All the paths that lead to the light".
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lonely
Apr 16, 2012 12:36:36 GMT
Post by sparklekaz on Apr 16, 2012 12:36:36 GMT
Dear Beth, Children are a blessing and need so much of our attention, that in many ways they are what helps us through difficult times. In saying that, I also know, that they cannot give us the adult company that we need. Someone to share our troubles with and someone to laugh with and share in the responsibilities of every day life. I am assuming you are a single parent, so please tell me if I am wrong here. Being a mother, there is a fellowship to be found with other mums. I know when my children were small I had friends that I made at Nursery and school. Still when we go home, they go to their homes and partners and family and if you are alone, that is the time you feel it most. I don't know where you are in the world Beth, but in the UK, there are social organisations to support single parents. Maybe this is something you can look into. Be in no doubt though, you are not alone and there are many other parents who are in a similar situation to you. Maybe you yourself might consider setting something up in your local community. It is very important that you try to have some quality time for yourself. If you have any family and they offer to babysit or help you with the children, then do not be too proud to let them help you. This is not a selfish act, because the happier you are, the happier your children will be. They will also gain a lot from interacting with other adults too. Tiredness is probably the biggest thing you feel, being a parent is incredibly demanding both physically and mentally. So please make sure you look after yourself properly, by eating regularly and nutritiously. If you have any minor niggling health problems, get them checked out by the doctor. I would say feeling desperately tired, can be a major cause of depression, thus amplifying any feelings of loneliness or feeling isolated. We are a friendly group, and there is nearly always someone to chat to in The God Light chat room. So please remember we are here, if you do want some company. I will watch out for you and would love to chat with you and get to know you better. Love and light Kaz |
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lonely
Apr 21, 2012 0:11:17 GMT
Post by ninabrazil on Apr 21, 2012 0:11:17 GMT
Hi Sylvie and Rosie, welcome to the group, please try to pop in our chat room, and I will do my best to cheer you up We have many members who feel the same as you, and I myself am not a person who would leave someone in distress, so please come and speak to me and our many lovely members within our chat room.. The link is on every page of the forum and main site... God bless you all. itis great not to be alone.. i feel just like you guys.. and is wonderful to be here now. |
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lonely
Apr 26, 2012 14:27:15 GMT
Post by jesusrose on Apr 26, 2012 14:27:15 GMT
We are never alone - though we feel that way at times don't we? The best thing is when we ask the universe for help - we always get it Welcome friends - looking forward to getting to know you both! Rose xxx |
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