Does this mean anything? Please help....

[solostthesedays]

Hello.

I had a dream about my loved one who was my partner that passed away. It has been a month and under 2 months now, ( 1 month and 13 days) and when I have dreams about him we don’t seem to be getting along. I love him very much, and I know he loved me, the only thing I can think of why we are arguing is maybe I am living in way that would not appeal to him. I struggle taking care of myself, showering, eating right, I am procrastinating from unpacking ( I had to move, I have been angry with him, myself and God)...I know he would want me to carry on positively. Anyways, this all being said I had a a dream about him last night, I was upset with him, because out of nowhere he decided to get a wolf as a pet. I thought that was a little silly because when did not have enough room in the apartment for a pet wolf.....And we were arguing a little. I do not know if this dream means anything, I do not dream about him often, I am always happy to see him in my dreams, but sad we are arguing. I miss him so much feels like this ache in my heart these days. Any light you could shed on this I would greatly appreciate. Thank you so much in advance.!...Blessings, S.

[delayne]

HI there
Well - I am not dream interpretation expert. It is normal to be angry that you have been left when someone close to you dies like this. Often when we feel like that we also feel guilty for having those feelings. By expressing your guilt in your dreams you ar processing those feelings. IF you have a look at the feelings behind your anger it might be that explains the wolf. It is symbolic of some commonly felt feelings people have that the person who died has left without consulting them. This may seem illogical but it is normal processing. It is early days yet and it takes time to get over such a loss. Some of the things we experience when we are going through such grief can really make us wonder about our own sanity. When I was going through this I give thanks for my sister when my mum passed because we found when we talked that we were both having similar things happen to us. I would suggest you allow yourself some time to think about those angry feelings if you are not already knowing that they are normal. PUt a time frame on it - maybe allow an hour to really go into it. Then do something to take your mind off of it - have a shower ring someone up. Accept these feelings as normal and perhaps the dreams will change.