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Post by solostthesedays on Jul 1, 2011 21:36:09 GMT
I recently lost my common law boyfriend he was my soulmate I believe....i struggle with spirituality and I miss him and love him so much...if anyone can help me i would be so grateful i just pray that my heart will heal . In my dream he was younger and healthier and we were in a car but then we were in room and he was telling me to shower...(in real life I struggled with showering...i have suffered from depression), I just want to believe my dream meant something.....? It has only been 3 long painful weeks....I am so glad I found this website I dont know what to do with myself I am so uncomfortable living right now and I do not know what to believe...
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sparklekaz
Someone asked me.. What is your religion? I said, "All the paths that lead to the light".
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Post by sparklekaz on Jul 2, 2011 13:50:15 GMT
Dear Solos,
Welcome to the dream board..
In your dream, you see your boyfriend, who has recently passed. It is very common, for spirit loved ones to visit us in our dreams. For it is the time when even those of us who are not mediumistic, can see spirit. We are at our most open and receptive, because the conscious mind has receded and the unconscious mind has taken over.
In your dream, you say that he appears younger, healthier. This too is a very common phenomena. It is believed, that this is because, when our loved one presents their image to us, they show us themselves at a time, when they felt happier and well. Because now they are in spirit, all the worries and health problems they had in life, have completely gone. So in this dream, he is showing you that he is safe and well. Not to worry about him. He appears to be more concerned about you!
A car in dream symbology, represents your personal energy, how you move through life. So being in a car, indicates, that in spite of your current mental and physical state through your bereavement, your energy is strong and will help you to continue and travel through life.
In the dream, your boyfriend encourages you to take a shower, to wash yourself. Washing is about cleansing, purification of emotions. He is aware of your depression, and is trying to tell you, that you need, to take hold of yourself and do all the things you need to do, to keep yourself healthy. Cleansing, purifying your body, can mean in terms of eating properly and good healthy food. Making sure you get enough sleep. To care about yourself, as much as he cared about you. This must be very, very important to him Solos, to make this big effort to connect with you, so soon after he has passed.
This is only my interpretation of your dream Solos, please only take from it that which is meaningful to you and leave the rest. If you have any questions, you would like to ask me, I will be only too happy to help if I can.
Love and light Kaz
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