I need help with this !

[oceanic]

Hi Im new and have ignored my psychic ability in the past and know little about it.

I went to a psychologist 5 years ago and he told me I was psychic.

I have had a terrible experience I stepped into someones mind I shouldnt have. A sexual psychopath no less. I went running to a psychologist again and explained what I was feeling and seeing. She said well thats what you get for stepping into a sexual psycopaths mind as thats what you have just described to me. By the way what does it feel like to be that person. Horrific is my answer to that.

Im really ill because of it mentally as well as my body.

Can anyone help ?

How can I protect myself in furture ?

I need to know more about my gift !

Has anyone else had this happen to them ?

[sparklekaz]

Hello Oceanic,

I am sorry to hear that you have had such a negative experience and because of your inexperience with your psychic ability, have very little idea about how to protect yourself.

If someone has psychic ability or is very empathic, which means they are sensitive to the energies of people they come into contact with. Empathy means that you pick up the mental energies of others and can feel what they are feeling. Empathy is more of an emotional connection, whereas psychic empathy means they can pick up the thoughts or mental images that others are thinking.

You need to be in control of this ability and learn to protect yourself so that you are only connecting to others when you want to, also it is important to remember there is an issue here of respecting the privacy of others. Most psychics or empaths will only connect with another if they have that person's permission to do so. So again, it is not just for your sake that it is important to have some control over your gifts, it is for the benefit of other's too.

There are some very basic visualisation techniques you can use to erect a mental shield around yourself. Some people use the image of being enveloped in a white light or visualise being held inside a bubble. You could visualise putting on a cloak or wearing a suit of armour. Whatever image you can think of that gives you a feeling of being protected. Along with this visualisation, saying a simple prayer of protection is important. It could be the Lords Prayer, any favorite prayer that has special meaning to you, asking the angels, your spirit guides, or you could make something up yourself, incorporating all of the above into it.

For empaths, when sitting with people who affect them strongly, a simple visualisation technique could be to imagine that you have a mirror in front of your heart and solar plexus area. This is because, these are the chakra's that are affected by emotion. This mirror deflects any strong emotions coming toward you. Empaths pick up emotions of others all the time, and this can be incredibly draining, especially if you have been with someone who is feeling very nervous and depressed. This maybe someone who you have spent time with before and you have always come away feeling tired and anxious. They might feel better from sharing with you, but they have drained you of all your energy and positivity.

It might be a good idea, to get into the habit of doing this at the beginning and end of each day regularly so it becomes an automatic habit. This way, even though you will still be sensitive, it will prevent you from becoming overly tired or affected by what you are picking up from others.

I would suggest if you wish to start developing your psychic ability seriously, that you consider joining a spiritual church or a properly run development circle. This way, you will be taught properly, how to open up safely to spirit, to ground and protect yourself properly and also you will have the benefit, of sharing with other more experienced psychics and mediums. They will help you develop your gift safely, and advise you if you have any questions, or difficulties. These circles are run by very experienced mediums, who will only be to happy to share with you the benefit if their experience and wisdom.

I hope this has helped Oceanic...

Love and light
Kaz

[oceanic]

Thank you Kaz,

I am going to a spirtualist church tonight for the first time.

I do pick up mental images and can feel what people have done. Like they say one thing and I see another in mental pictures.

I do try and not pick things up from people or tell them things without their permisson as you said its rude.

This issue was personal thou in the fact that it was my brother in law and related to my husband soon to be ex. I have never stepped into my brother in laws mind before because I pick evil up off him and I knew it was dangerous to do so, so mentally when I'm near him I contruct a mental barrier between him and me.

I did the above without wanting to, but it was like I needed to see it in order to make a decison about my ex and to protect my girls.

The information you gave was very benifical and I need to find out more about my psychic ability and how to protect myself in the future. I was scared about going to the spiritualist church as I did not want to open myself up further and do more damage to myself but I think it will be a positive experience as you said as I can learn to protect myself first before I learn to develop my gift further.

So thank you Kay

[sparklekaz]

Hi Kay,

I am glad I was able to be of some help to you...

You have nothing to fear from attending a Spiritual Church, as it is one place where you can be sure that the Leader of the Church and the Medium who is giving the demonstration of mediumship, will have made sure not only that they have done all the correct things to protect themselves when the work, but they also will have presented the congregation attending.

Spiritual church is very similar in some ways to ordinary church. They start off by saying a lovely prayer. It is usually healing based and not directed toward any particular religious denomination. It is more spiritual and encompasses all faiths and those who do not follow any particular religion. They sing some nice hymns or songs, again spiritual. The Medium for the evening usually gives a talk, something philosophical, or related to life's experiences and the way humans interact with each other and about growing in our selves. Only then do they start to give their demonstration.

Any spirit communication comes through the Medium not to the audience, although if you are very open, you may see spirit beside the medium, or feel the energy. It is absolutely safe, so be reassured of that. Usually on the public message boards, there will be details of any courses they are doing, workshops and of course if they are starting a development circle. There are open circles and closed circles. The open ones are for the beginners, who are wanting to develop their psychic awareness, they may not even want to go on and become mediums if they discover they have that gift. A lot of healers like to do this, and anyone who just wants to be more open and aware and use their intuition more in their daily life. The Closed circles are usually for those who have been through the Open circle, and have developed mediumistic ability and want to go further with it and really develop it. Also this is where the experienced mediums will be.

I am sure you will enjoy the experience and make some new like minded friends, I look forward to hearing how you get on...

Love and light
Kaz

[telsa]

What is Entity Contamination?
Psychic Protection 101

If you have ever become angry, vengeful, agitated, or depressed for no apparent reason, it is possible that the unseen forces of one or more entities have affected you adversely. Much confusion surrounds this topic, and there are as many ideas about entity contamination as there are authors. Regardless of your beliefs in this area, it is the intent of this article to give you an idea about negative forces in place and the ammunition to protect yourself, your space, and your loved ones without expensive outside intervention.
What is an Entity?
For the purposes of this article, an entity is anything perceived as outside of you that feeds off your energy or emotions. It can be a thoughtform that has taken on a life of its own, a discarnate energy pattern with malicious or non-malicious intent, a hook or attachment from one or more persons, or a discarnate being that feeds off the energy or thoughts of its host. An entity can jump from person to person or from apparently nowhere and is very easy to attract in these accelerated times. You are susceptible to entity contamination when you are with people, out shopping, at the movies, or at a restaurant. The great news is that entities can be controlled and expelled easily and effectively by just about anyone.
Causes of Entity Contamination
Many problems can be caused by entity contamination, including depression, anxiety, fear, addictions, suicidal tendencies, phobias, relationship difficulties, bad health, rage, hyperactivity, crabbiness, money problems, and blocks to personal and spiritual growth. This does not mean that every instance of problem is entity related, so use discernment in assessing any situation.
Common Signs and Symptoms of Entity Contamination
•Sudden depression, rage, edginess, anger, sadness, or anxiety
•Feeling suddenly dizzy or off-balance
•Sleeplessness
•Repetitive or weird thoughts
•Personality changes
•Chronic or sudden health concerns
•Manic depression
•Outbursts
•Addictions
•Relationship problems
•Multiple personalities
Methods to Control and Remove Entities
There are three easy and effective ways to control and eliminate entities. With a little research, you can find out why these methods work, but for our purposes you just need to know that they do work and are worth trying.
1.Fill a bathtub with water and add one medium handful of all-natural sea salt (available at health food stores, department stores, etc.). Take a normal bath, making sure that you dunk fully at least once. This will remove entity contaminants from your aura and other energetic fields.

2.Smudge yourself and your space with white sage (available in bulk at herb stores, metaphysical shops, online markets, etc.). Place some loose white sage in a safe metal container or incense burner and light it. (I do not recommend glass ashtrays or dishes, as I have seen some blow up from intense heat.) Fan the sage smoke over your body and walk it around your house or apartment in a counter-clockwise fashion. You may feel a sudden shift as an entity is expelled into the smoke. Smudging sticks provide an alternative to loose leaf sage that works as well.

3.Entities respond well to prayers that ask them to leave or to transmute into light. Though it is hard to believe sometimes, they do respect free will. Many examples of prayers can be found on the Internet or in spiritual circles worldwide. Ground yourself as much as possible before reciting one. You can repeat a prayer as often as necessary.
Example:


Father/Mother/God/Spirit/Source, I ask that all souls, energy patterns, and entities be sent on their spiritual evolution for the highest good and mutual benefit of everyone concerned.

Regardless of whether you believe in entities or not, the above methods indisputably remove negative influences of all kinds and cannot do any harm. For severe contamination, all three methods can be used daily.

Tela xxxx
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