my dream

[unaq]

hi i am new to site i had a strange dream last nite my brother died very suddenly 8 weeks ago he had collapsed and died in his home he was alone !!! my dream was of him in his kitchen looking out the window the secenery form his window was beautiful but a new house is now being built (blocking their view in the dream this house was not there jimmy was standing gazing out and he was crying i was standing behind him this bit is a bit vague for me but when i asked him why he was crying he said he did not get saying good bye i would love your interpretation (i know he was not alone but none of his living family was with him )thanks love una

[sparklekaz]

Hi unaq,

Welcome to our dream board and welcome to the God Light...

Firstly, can I say how very sorry I am to hear of your loss. To lose a sibling is a very traumatic and difficult thing to cope with. At the moment, your mind is trying to cope with the shock and loss and this is going to be shown in your dreams.

This dream has meaning on two levels, one is the symbolic aspect of your own psyche and the other I feel, is that your brother's spirit has visited you in your dream, a mixture if you like of both. Symbolism and a spiritual encounter.

To dream of a sibling or family member, is symbolic of the need to connect with familial roots a need to feel secure, to feel close to and a need for support. This has been an incredibly stressful time for you and your family and you need each other. The love and bond that you share will help you through this very difficult time. Do not be afraid to express how you feel and to keep in close contact with your other family members. Your presence in their life is just as important as theres is in yours.

Also to dream of a male figure is also showing that there are aspects of your brother in you and aspects of you in him. This dream can be saying to you, that there were qualities that he had that you should embrace and bring out more in yourself. As often men dream about women and as we all hold within our psyche male and female qualities. It could be his determination, his strength of purpose and his focus, these although qualities that can be found in women are more associated with men. This dream could be saying to you, to allow this part of your personality to come through more.

In the dream your brother is crying and looking out of his window, in dream symbology a window is equal to the eyes of the dreamer and also allowing them to look out at the vista before them. Your brother sees before him a very beautiful landscape. This maybe the world of spirit, where colours and visions are more beautiful then anything we have here in our living world. He sees before him this wonderful vision. In dream symbology a beautiful scene is symbolic of ideas, dreams and aspirations, a fertile vista, one where you have the potential within you to go out into the world and make things happen, in a fruitful and fertile way. The future before you has many many opportunities, and you need to make the most of them, don't waste a minute of this wonderful life that you have.

In the dream your brother is crying and he is upset because, he did not get the chance to say goodbye. My intuition tells me, this is more about how you are feeling yourself, you are very sad that you did not get this chance and the tears in the dream are a reflection of this. Which is more then understandable under the circumstances.

I truly believe that your brother showed himself to you in your dream to let you know he was alright, the view from his window was so beautiful, this is what he sees before him, in the world of spirit. In one sense, he too is going to be embarking on a new phase of 'his life' one that is full of exciting and wonderful possibilities, ones which those of us who are still living are not allowed to see, but he can.... mixed in with this, is your deep sadness and grief at him leaving without being allowed to make your goodbyes.

I feel positive Una, that your brother will visit you again to reassure you and let you know that he is safe and well. He may have been alone in the physical sense when he passed so suddenly Una, but I feel absolutely positive, that he would not have been alone, a loved one from spirit would have been there to hold his hand and to reassure him and to take him over to the world of spirit. Where he would be given lots of love and healing to help him deal with the suddenness of his death, his transition.

I hope this has helped you Una, this is only my interpretation of your dream, please only take from it that which feels right to you or resonates with you, and leave the rest..

Love and light
Kaz

[unaq]

hi kaz and thankyou so much it all makes a lot of sense i have been asking my brother to let me know that he is ok i had prayed after my da died that i would get a sign he was ok i did he came to me in a dream it took a while but after that i knew he was ok that was in 1979 .again thankyou kaz love una