My Dream : deep rooted issue :

[paradigm]

A mate and I drive (he drove) to the end of the beach (this beach is my home town). Went onto the beach to make a fire. Then My mate (police officer) went over to the police car, which was on watch next to the beach (on the road over looking the beach). Then I went up to my mate who was at the car, who seemed to put on his uniform. As I approached, one of the officers asked if I would like to do either a desk job or be out on the street as an officer. I not knowing which entered the station, which showed the day to day workings of the station. (felt like everyday life). Then the dream continued to then proceed to the town centre of my home town, where I met my ex, the only person who I’ve been able to have a long term relationship. Probably my twin flame as its been pointed out a couple of times. She had with herself a baby in the pram, a single mum as she has left the boyfriend.

I with my wishes would not like to get into a relationship with a single mum. And I always had hope that if I were to ever get back with her, that she and I could start a family.

The strong desire to be back with her, with the conflicting feeling of not wanting to because of a baby which is not mine. She spoke to me saying basically, “It would be good for you, to help balanced and make you a better person to stand by me and help me bring the child up”, she continued to say that the baby I would love and be loved back.

The dream continued with my ex and I looking to get some food for lunch, felt more confident, went into a place which seem not to serve food, brought something which then seem to feel on the floor, or placed behind me, which was in my left had, seem to have been in a mobile case, but the case was empty. A old women forgot someone or asked if anyone had seem an item, which was in the que. So as I was leaving I picked up the item and returned it to the woman.

First post and its a dream. Would love to have this worked out, i've trying too myself, but its not as easy to self analysis. Dream i had last night, and felt its an important one.

Nathan x

[undineworker]

Hi Nathan, and nice that you feel you could share! I will do my best for you my friend. Firstly, I will take what you said last - the fact that you woke up feeling that this dream was an important one, means THAT IT IS. You have the leftover feeling which your dream mind has communicated to your conscious mind because the dream is trying to convey its importance to you whilst you are awake and do just what you are trying to do – i.e. decipher it. I hope this helps.

RIGHT, FIRSTLY -
A mate and I drive (he drove) to the end of the beach (this beach is my home town). AT HOME, SAFE AND WHERE YOU WANT TO BE Went onto the beach to make a fire. IS THIS SOMETHING YOU WOULD NORMALLY DO – IF NOT, THEN LOOK AT WHAT IT MEANS TO YOU – I.E. “COME ON BABY LIGHT MY FIRE” OR “THERE’S NO SMOKE WITHOUT FIRE” – DO SOME FREE ASSOCIATION IN YOUR OWN MIND, WHILST THINKING OF YOUR DREAM IN PARTICULAR THIS PART OF IT. IF, HOWEVER, LIGHTING A FIRE IS NORMAL FOR YOU ON THE BEACH LIKE THIS THEN THIS IS JUST A REINFORCEMENT OF YOUR NORMAL/SAFE.HAPPY SITUATION I.E. BEING AT HOME. Then my mate (police officer) went over to the police car, which was on watch next to the beach (on the road overlooking the beach). Then I went up to my mate who was at the car, who seemed to put on his uniform. AUTHORITY FIGURE SEEMS TO FIGURE LARGELY IN YOUR DREAM. IS THE POLICEMAN AN IMPORTANT PERSON TO YOU AS A FRIEND OR AS A POLICEMAN? DO YOU VALUE HIS PROTECTION – IT SEEMS A THEME IS APPEARING HERE, RELATING TO SECURITY PROTECTION AND SAFETY – PERHAPS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THIS? OR YOUR DREAM MIND IS TELLING YOU THAT YOU VALUE THIS MUCH MORE THAN YOU HAD CONSCIOUSLY SUPPOSED? HENCE WE GO ON TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND THE SECURITY QUESTION? As I approached, one of the officers asked if I would like to do either a desk job or be out on the street as an officer. I not knowing which entered the station, which showed the day to day workings of the station. (felt like everyday life). YOU HAVE A CHOICE OF WORK – DIFFICULT OR EASY – STRAIGHTFORWARD SAFE AND SECURE OR MORE DANGEROUS – AGAIN, IT SEEMS YOU ARE ASKED TO CHOOSE BETWEEN SECURITY AND DANGER? Then the dream continued to then proceed to the town centre of my home town, where I met my ex, the only person who I’ve been able to have a long term relationship. Probably my twin flame as its been pointed out a couple of times. She had with herself a baby in the pram, a single mum as she has left the boyfriend. IS SHE REALLY YOUR SOULMATE – WHO HAS POINTED OUT THAT SHE IS YOUR TWIN FLAME? DO YOU GENUINELY FEEL THIS OR HAS IT BEEN SUGGESTED BY SOMEONE ELSE? THE FACT THAT YOU MET HER CASUALLY SUGGESTS SHE IS REALLY WHAT IS AT THE ROOT OF THE SECURITY/SAFETY QUESTION….THE BABY REPRESENTS AN ENDING, OFTEN WHEN WE DREAM OF NEW LIFE/BIRTH IT REPRESENTS THE END OF SOMETHING OR DEATH….NOT THAT SOMEONE WILL ACTUALLY DIE, BUT RATHER THAT A WAY OF LIFE OR WAY OF THINKING WILL COME TO AN END FOR YOU. THE BABY SEEMS TO BE THE CORE ISSUE – THE FACT THAT IT IS SOMEONE ELSE’S BABY MATTERS NOT, REALLY, WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, IT IS THE QUESTION OF RESPONSIBILITY – THE FACT THAT THIS EX SEEMS TO BE YOUR SOULMATE IS THE REAL QUESTION. AN ENDING COULD BE SIMPLY THAT THE ENDING OF YOUR DITHERING/PROCRASTINATION IS NIGH. I AM SURE SHE FEELS THAT WAY.

I with my wishes WHAT DO YOU MEAN, WITH YOUR WISHES? I AM CONFUSED BY THE WAY YOU PUT THIS AS YOU DO NOT SAY WHAT YOUR WISHES ARE – IS THIS IN THE DREAM, OR IN REALITY? would not like to get into a relationship with a single mum. And I always had hope that if I were to ever get back with her, that she and I could start a family. THIS IS YOUR CORE QUESTION – THE QUESTION TO WHICH THE WHOLE DREAM REFERS. THIS IS THE ONE YOU HAVE TO EXAMINE AND FIND THE ANSWER TO – GO TO SLEEP TONIGHT WITH THE QUESTION IN YOUR MIND AND YOUR DREAM MIND WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH AN ANSWER….AS IT IS TRYING TO DO HERE.

The strong desire to be back with her, with the conflicting feeling of not wanting to because of a baby which is not mine. SHE IS WHO YOU LOVE, NOT THE BABY, LOVE FOR THE BABY WILL COME, AND IS NOT THE CORE ISSUE, YOUR LOVE FOR HER AS A PERSON COULD POSSIBLY RELATE TO THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE MAYBE BEEN TOGETHER BEFORE IN PAST LIVES (IF YOU BELIEVE IN REINCARNATION) AND YOUR MIND IS SHOWING YOU THAT YOU HAVE A SPECIAL BOND WITH HER, AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE DESTINED FOR EACH OTHER AND FOR JUST SUCH SECURITY AND SAFETY AS YOU SEEK….THE BABY IS BUT A BLANK PAGE AS YET, UNWRITTEN UPON AND THEREFORE NOT A CONSIDERATION, IN REALITY IF YOU WERE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, YOU WOULD SEE THAT. She spoke to me saying basically, “It would be good for you, to help balanced and make you a better person to stand by me and help me bring the child up”, she continued to say that the baby I would love and be loved back. I FEEL SHE IS RIGHT, IN MY HEART. IN YOUR HEART, I FEEL YOU DO TOO.

The dream continued with my ex and I looking to get some food for lunch, FOOD FOR THOUGHT QUITE LITERALLY – MAKING YOU FEEL MORE CONFIDENT AND HAPPIER IN YOURSELF. felt more confident, went into a place which seem not to serve food, brought something which then seem to feel on the floor, or placed behind me, which was in my left had, seem to have been in a mobile case, but the case was empty. YOU ARE CONCERNED THAT IF YOU TRY TOO HARD TO PROVIDE (FOOD REFERENCE) FOR HER AND THE BABY YOU WILL FAIL, DROP-OUT, PERHAPS, AND THE FACT THAT WHAT YOU GOT TURNED OUT TO BE EMPTY RELATES TO THE FACT THAT YOU FEEL THAT IF YOU DO NOT PROVIDE FOR HER AND THE BABY, YOU WILL FEEL EMPTY, OR YOU WILL ONLY BE DOING IT AS AN EMPTY GESTURE, I.E. YOUR HEART WOULD NOT BE IN IT. An old woman forgot someone or asked if anyone had seen an item, which was in the queue. So as I was leaving I picked up the item and returned it to the woman. FULL CIRCLE, TAKING, THEN GIVING BACK TO THE WOMAN…THE OLD WOMAN REPRESENTS WISDOM AND INTELLIGENCE. TAKE WHAT SHE GIVES YOU AND RETURN IT TO THE UNIVERSE…SHE GIVES YOU WISDOM AND YOU ARE ASKED TO USE THAT WISDOM WITH INTELLIGENCE AND COMMON SENSE AND REAP THE BENEFITS.

I hope this makes sense to you – do think further and consider your feelings. Do ask for any further clarification if you feel I have not made anything clear. I wish you all the very best my friend.

Love and Light
Lizzie xx

[paradigm]

Wow, many thanks for the reply. This is all in the dream. What is real is i have a friend who is a policeman. And my ex is my ex, i do not know if she has a child, all i know is she has a boyfriend. i looked up the symbols of part of the dream and the fire (burning desire?). Though you refer it to be my safety or my home security i feel is right. I didn't understand what you meant about core question. Though, i would like to start a family with my ex, if the opportunity came about. Though presently i don't have much contact, i deleted numbers to let go of her. Though i found out i still had her email, which i sent a late reply, and still haven't had one in return. When i brok eup with her about 4 years ago, i realised all the fears that we put into the relationship. And knew that i would have to go through a period of purging. Lately i've been having a lot of desire to be with a female again (honestly, its been more to do with sex), thus have been getting a lot dreams about sex.

Also in my life i've been realising that i've need to change my life, get on with the normal life, getting a job and finially moving out. over the xmas period i have been redoing my bedroom, before a light purple room, with a lot of dark purple for acoustic treatment.

Remembering now, that before i went to bed i think i asked what must i do, to get what i desire? as you said is it that i have to really go for it, face my fears go with what i feel is right.


I'm feeling great puzzle pieces, but can't quite put them together.

thanks again,

Nathan x

[undineworker]

Dear Nathan

thank you for your feedback - it always helps to know what is truth, what is symbolism, and what is reality - often when you relate a dream to an interpreter, you are adding in what you feel at the same time - but the interpreter does not always know if this was in the dream or real...iyswim. I do feel that you have a few puzzles, and I do feel that you will be able to slowly piece them together if you ask your guides for assistance. Going to sleep on a problem will bring you the answer, although not necessarily all in one go! Just remember to keep a notebook and pen next to your bed and try your best to record the dreams fresh....if it is any help to you, you dream your deepest at around 5am, supposing you go to sleep at around 10-11ish....or put another way, the early hours of the morning or just before you wake up are your deepest dream cycles, and therefore the ones we remember most, the most vivid ones, which usually have the message we seek for in them.

I think the baby in the dream is more about a new beginning, as you say, about whether or not to start again. You I think already know this.

I am glad I could be of help.

Purple is my favourite colour too - how cool is that, to have a purple bedroom?! My husband would never allow it!!! lol.

Love and Light
Lizzie xx