How to attract a nice partner?

[duminy89]

Hello to all!

I've lived a very hard life and life has not been easy for me.

I used to have a very long speech impediment and I lost my mother when I was aged 11. I've been bullied and abused by some of my relatives and I've also been ignored in family, they just leave me to one place. Even in school I was bullied.

However, I've managed to heal my speech impediment and now successfully starting my career in the computing field. I've had to forgive a lot of people.

I would like to have a nice partner one day and I see a lot of couples wherever I go out, to functions, weddings with nice partners.

The question is, how do I attract nice things, especially a partner? Be more loving, kind, fun, have a big heart and like energy attracts itself? 

I appreciate your comments! 

[aceofcups]

Hi duminy89

I do not think there is magic way or wand that works for everybody.

But you mentioned a few very good ones which would change anyone's energy field to "possibly" make it happen to a greater degree:

"Be more loving, kind, fun, have a big heart"

[donq]

Hi Duminy89,

I just happened to watch a music video (concert) and the spokeman said:

"If you want to see the most beautiful scenery in the world,
look within yourself."

I think this is also the case about you question. I didn't take your question lightly but I do believe that, in the end, it's all about ourselves.
If we could "be more loving, kind, fun, have a big heart" as you said (and Ace quoted it), why would we have anything to worry about? What you have been looking for will finally come at the right time.

If not, then our big hearts still could heal ourselves from anything in the world. (Believe me, I know this last paragraph so well. lol)