repeated dream...

[zanna]

Hi everyone,

Hope someone can help me. 2/4 yrs ago I think my fella cheated on me with someone I know. I have no proof (We're since been married) All I do know is that I had that wrenching sick feeling when ever I saw her, when I was with him. The way they looked at the floor when we saw her. I always felt so sick & hurt.

Thing is ever since I keep having dreams That they did cheat on me, he's always denied it. Why is this happening. Also I get no TLC or even a compliment at all. Thanks

[sparklekaz]

Dear Zanna,

Insecurity is a terrible thing, and this I think is what the problem is here...

What you need to focus on is that your boyfriend is now your husband. He is with you now, because he loves you. No one made him, if he wanted to be with someone else, he would be.

The reason he hangs his head and avoids eye contact with this certain someone, is probably because, he knows how you feel about her and is trying very hard not to antagonise you by making eye contact with her. I know you see this as an indication of his guilt, but you are just assuming, and for him, it must be very hurtful, to know you do not trust him.

I believe the dreams are your unconscious trying to deal with your fears. They often surface when we sleep. If you do not move on from these feelings, you will ruin what you have now, maybe bringing about the one thing that you fear the most.

Just enjoy each other's company, and I am sure, the compliments/ TLC will come back.

Take care
Love and light
Karen

[zanna]

Hi Karen, Thanks for your kind words. Think your right. Im gonna ask the angels & guides for some healing tonight. Love,light to you,xxx

[undineworker]

Karen is right, Zanna, you are where you are for a reason, and insecurity is what is making you unhappy. You have bad feelings which are coming from within. Whether or not he cheated on you is not the issue, he is with you now because that is where he wants to be, and you are with him for the same reason. Ask for help - your guide has already given you the coloured stones and he will give you so much more but remember your guide can only help you if you open yourself and ask for help from him - he is unable to intercede without your asking for help. Do ask. You may well be amazed at what you receive!

Love and Light

Lizzie xx

[zanna]

Hi Lizzie, Thank you all for your words of love & understanding. I have tried asking my guides (Bless them, they've probably got headache with me to look after. Not to mention getting counselling!) Lol.
But really, I have asked and nothing. This is the thought that I sent out to my angels & guides .

If me & my husband are meant to be together, then please put us on the road to healing so we can become close once again & show love & support together.
If we are not meant to be then please let the healing start now in all directions of time & space to everyone involved so there is only love when we part & no bad feeling.

Thank you,xxx

Is that ok? Have I done it right? Please can you tell me. Thank you,xxx

[undineworker]

Hi Zanna,

that sounds right, you have to use your own words, and no harm to anyone. That is certainly right. You also have to ask for signs. Be open to anything and everything - sometimes signs come from the words of a song, the pages of a book, or something on tv. You must be open to receive the answers you are looking for. If something "feels" wrong to you, often that is because you are being told it isnt right, by the same token it can "feel" right....you have to learn to trust your instinct, intuition or gut reaction to things, because these are equally answers, just as much as your guide appearing and telling you what is the answer. Answers are not always cut and dried.

Hope this helps

Love and Light

Lizzie xx

[zanna]

Thanks again Lizzie. It's hard to know what is your gut feeling & your insecurities. Love& light,xxx

ps what is the karma bit at bottom of our page?

[Leon]

When someone posts a good thread, that starts an interesting debate, I give them a Karma point.

www.thegodlight.co.uk

[undineworker]

Hi zanna, the difference between gut feeling and insecurities....hmm, interesting, I would have to say emotional input is where its at. If you examine your insecurities they do not hold up to the light, without being transparent, if you see what I mean? Your gut feeling is a truthful and honest feeling which grabs you right in your belly. It just "feels" right. I always act on instinct, even when it has seemed to be way out there, or just plain daft, and I have never been disappointed yet!

Hope that helps

Lizzie xx

[zanna]

Thanks lizzie, your a sweetie. That does make sense.xxx