In the last week I've dreamed about my ex-husband 4 times!!!

[DeeUSA]

Hi everyone,

I keep dreaming about my ex-husband. Its almost every other day! A lot of the dreams had to do with me finding out he was with another woman. I'll relive the hurt of our breakup and then fortunately wake up. This last one was different. We clearly weren't together, but somehow we had become friends again. I was moving out of a house that I had lived in for a long while, had a TON of junk and he was helping me move stuff out to his car. We were sitting in his car talking and his phone rang. I said something to the effect, that maybe I should get out of the car or I'll be quiet so he can talk. He told me that she knew about me and he told her to either accept me or move on. I remembered asking him something like why? He basically said something to the effect that we will always be together or love each other or something like that. He answered the phone and said to the lady on the phone "I'm with Dee right now, I'll call you back." Then he helped me move my stuff out of the house....some more stuff happened but now I can't remember. lol

Its really starting to bother me though because I getting tired of dreaming about him. Most of the time it's reopening the wound that I felt I've closed (until very recently) and I'm always glad to wake up from them. Is there something I need to learn so that I can stop dreaming of him?

As always I welcome any interpretations or insight on this dream.

Blessings to you all

Dee

[sparklekaz]

Hi Dee,

In dream symbolism the house represents YOU the dreamer. Every room represents different aspects of you. By clearing out the 'junk' from your home, symbolically you are getting rid of everything you no longer need or that no longer serves the person you are becoming. This can be old beliefs, behavioural patterns, old habits. Basically you are de-cluttering your life!

Part of this process is also about coming to terms with and working through your feelings and thoughts about your ex husband. To see an ex partner or love in our dreams, is telling us that we still have emotional ties to that person. It maybe that in your own mind you are trying to work out where he still fits in, or how you see your relationship with him evolving. Would you like to remain friends with him? But the question for you to consider is; Can you remain friends with him and still move forward? This is still about how you perceive his feelings towards you, rather then what his feelings actually are. Only you know if this is meaningful to you Dee. Ask yourself honestly, is it possible to allow new love into your life, if in some way you are still holding on to what was. Even in the form of friendship. For friendship, is just another face of love.

I can see how it would re open old wounds. focus on those feelings of pain you feel when you remember what caused them. This is also your unconscious mind, reminding you of how you felt. Time is a great healer, but in some ways it can also put rose coloured spectacles on something that we view from a distance. When we reflect on past experiences. Have you been feeling nostalgic recently, or thinking of old times when you were happy with him. The yearnings of the heart will have their outlet. What we will not speak of or even allow ourselves to think in waking times, will surface in our dreams. My feeling is that this is a dream of letting go and moving forward. But you still have a little way to go yet. Recurring dreams like this mean that the dream has a very important message for you. That you still have things to resolve. Until you do, they will keep coming. Write them down if you can, and each time they come, notice any differences and compare them. Within the dreams will be the guidance you've been seeking. For I do feel you have been asking for help with this.

I hope this helps Dee. This is only my interpretation of your dream, please only take from it that which resonates or is meaningful to you, and leave the rest.

Love and light
Kaz