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Post by bajanbrummie on Mar 5, 2013 16:00:25 GMT
Please excuse me if my question isn't suitable Im currently looking to seek a spiritualist but bit worried noone will come to me (does that make sense) ive only had 2close family members pass away since ive been born 1st october2011 2nd November 2011 Don't know if it may be to soon for them Thank you in advance
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Post by jesusrose on Apr 4, 2013 16:19:44 GMT
Hello BajanBrummie
It is very difficult to find reasons that help the pain when we lose loved ones and my heart goes out to you for the loses your experiencing.
The spiritualist you seek is within you my friend. If you do not meditate already, I encourage you to do so. And if you do, continue with it. You will find that you open up yourself to receiving so much from the universe when you meditate - but be patient, it comes with time.
Personally, I don't feel that it is ever 'too soon' although it is hard to bear. My belief is that we have things that we are on earth to do and we leave once we're done. Sometimes that is simply leaving the world with a message or other times it is to lead loved ones onto a certain path after we die. That is only my view.
Love and Light to you xxx
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sparklekaz
Someone asked me.. What is your religion? I said, "All the paths that lead to the light".
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Post by sparklekaz on Apr 5, 2013 10:28:45 GMT
Dear Bajan,
I agree with Rose, in the sense that I believe we all have the ability to connect with loved ones who have passed into spirit. All that is needed is the intention and a open mind. But sometimes, anxiety or the profound affects of grief can create a barrier, that makes it difficult. In these instances, for those who strongly feel the need for reassurance and contact, using a reputable medium is an option.
If this is the way in which you want to go. I would suggest you visit your local spiritual church. They regularly hold mediumship nights. There is no guarantee someone will come through for you. But, I do feel seeing others receive messages is also a lovely validation of the continuation of life in spirit, even if you don't receive something for yourself. Especially if that evidence is very accurate. If you still feel the need for a one to one session with a medium. The spiritual church will be able to point you in the right direction, and more importantly they will know someone who is reputable and very good at what they do. There are many charlatans out there who prey on the grieving and the vulnerable, so finding someone of high spiritual integrity, I believe is extremely important.
I would say to you though, to think hard about why you feel the need to communicate. If it is because you just want evidence that they are well, happy and safe on the other side, then I think thats fine. But, if it is because you are currently experiencing problems in life and want guidance. Think more in terms of trying to resolve these issues for yourself. By seeking help from family, friends, a doctor or therapist on this side of life. In my experience, it is rare you will receive any hints as to the future, as spirit are not allowed to interfere with earthly life.
I would say though, that if you are suffering in any way and feeling lost. Even if you cannot see, hear or feel them. Our loved ones are always around us, offering us their unseen but very powerful love and protection to help us on our life path. So be reassured, you are never alone.
Love and light Kaz
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