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Post by sunflowerusa on Nov 30, 2006 2:01:32 GMT
Everyone has someone who upsets them from time to time. Sometimes it seems that these people who upset us the most we can not escape no matter what we try. Well recently a real lot happened in my family,so I tried to distant myself,only to find them trying to hang around even more. I asked the question aloud and waited for guidence. I came to realize that we attract these people for a reason. The aspects in others we can not stand or bother us are the exact things in oour selves we need to face and work on. And even though the people may change the same or similar situations will keep occuring until I accept and work on those issues. To love our imperfections and learn. so if we have people around us that test us to no limit, take a step back and say they are such and such, say to yourself were in my life am I like that and learn from it.
Probably put ya all to sleep but just sharing!
love and light jess
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Post by undineworker on Nov 30, 2006 7:21:02 GMT
My dear Jess, share all you want, you are more than welcome. We are all patient and understanding on this board I hope and also here to help.
I feel that awkward situations happen to make you learn. If you do not learn in the first instance, you will have the experience repeated in many different forms until you do - after all, did you know your soul chose just these experiences when it chose to enter this new life before you were even in the womb? Makes you think, doesnt it - so if you try to view every awful situation as a learning experience, it may make you readier to accept that you are in it for a reason and you will learn from it. Not try to escape from it.
Hope this helps
Love and Light
Lizzie xx
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Post by zanna on Nov 30, 2006 8:06:34 GMT
Hi Sunflower. I totaly agree with you hun & when you make the changes in your self these people will no longer enter your life, their manner will have shifted as so will yours, God Bless Hun,xxx
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Post by sunflowerusa on Nov 30, 2006 11:04:36 GMT
Its like this, my husband procrastinates on something( like taking out the garbage) lol And then to say to myself ( what am I procrastinating in my life) lol or kids are screaming and angry or fighting (what am I mad at myself for or what am i beating myself over) lol  love and light jess |
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Post by zanna on Nov 30, 2006 11:08:40 GMT
Your not hun, Im the same. (Can you get to chatroom?) xxx
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Post by zanna on Nov 30, 2006 11:10:55 GMT
Im back sweetie.
I get like that & I don't know why. Maybe it's like you said we can see an inner reflection of our selfs but then what? How do we clear it? I need help with this myself.xxx
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