Strange dream, meaning appreciated

[indigo11]

Hello all,

I had a dream a couple of days ago about the lady I fancied.

I've had atleast 60 odd dreams about her in the last year alone,

In this dream, I am on a coach, which is situated stationary at a far location. The coach is moving afterwards on a road and there are plenty of seats available on the coach. Another coach goes past my coach on the right, which I see the lady I fancy which she is sat right at the back with her aunties, this lady did not look at me, she had a concentrated face looking forward.

I then notice the coach/ bus has seating arrangement like a cinima hall and I'm too shy to sit down by the other people.

In the next scene, I am in a hall, sitting down near about 10 metres away to the left of the side and I see the lady I fancy walk in (the door was 10 metres in front of me) and sit down right in front of me with her brother, a male cousin to the left of her and another of her male cousin sat to the left of me, she came in with her brother and 2 male cousins, they seemed normal. I believe this male needed a chair, the one who sat to the left of me, so I got up and gave him a plastic chair.

Then her small cousin is sitting at the back offers a seat to my cousin.

I'm figuring out what this dream could mean, I felt ok, because she was there, maybe she sitting in front of me signifies something? I'd like to know your thoughts about this dream.

Many thanks,

Indigo

[sparklekaz]

Hi Indigo,

Welcome to the dream board.

In dream symbology a coach/bus represents tremendous potential for self expression. As a vehicle it symbolises the energy available to you the dreamer. Initially, the coach is stationary, which indicates that you personally are poised ready for something. On the coach you say there are lots of empty seats. Passengers on your coach on one level represent aspects of you, on another, they are spaces ready to be filled by the people who you will meet on your life journey.

The fact that you are a passenger on the coach rather then driving it, would indicate that at this time, you tend to go along with life as it comes, rather then taking control of it yourself. An easy going laid back type of personality. Or that at this time in your life, if you are young, you are not entirely sure what you want to do, or where you want to go, and are open to what life presents to you.

The coach starts to move along the road. The condition of the road, the direction in which it is going, all tells you something about your life. As a road in dream symbolism is your life path. If the road is good and straight then it would indicate you are going in the right direction for you at this time.

You see another coach pass you, and notice a young lady that in life you are attracted to. This coach overtakes yours. In life, do you feel that the young lady is beyond your reach at the moment. That she moves in circles that you are outside of? It might also indicate that on some level, whatever she is doing in life, progress wise, her job etc, may be further along then your own current situation.

You see people sat down watching a movie in a makeshift cinema, but are too shy to join them. Movies seen in dreams are connected to parts of our life. They are also linked to current thinking, perception, feelings, relationships etc. It is a shame you didn't go to watch the film, it may have shed some insight on how you are feeling at the moment. Feeling, shy may indicate on some level, that you are not ready to probe or go any deeper to analyse how you feel about your life or this young lady at the moment. Which is not necessarily a bad thing. I think we can analyse too much rather then just allowing situations to develop naturally. I see you as being of the latter opinion.

You are sitting in a hall. To me halls are large rooms, and rooms in dreams are an aspect of the dreamer. If it was a hallway it would be a passageway, which symbolises going from one part of life to another, or moving in your own personal development from one phase to another. The size of the rooms indicates the amount of energy available to us. The people in the room are all on one level an aspect of you, even the young lady in your dream.

For a man to dream of a women, she represents his ideal, someone who embodies all the qualities he admires. On another level, they can also represent aspects of the self in which work needs to be done, if what they represent has any negative connotations to it. I have a feeling, from the overall tone of your dream, that you admire this young lady from afar and feel to some extent that she is too good for you or you are lacking in confidence.

I would say that the dream is showing you that you have great potential, but are happy to be taken along by life, rather then taking control and making things happen. If you really like this girl, you are going to have to make some effort to get her to notice you. I would not be surprised if she already has done, but no nice young women is going to make the first move. If you like her, this is something you will have to do. Don't be afraid, just go for it.

This is only my interpretation of your dream Indigo, please only take from it that which feels right or is meaningful to you and leave the rest. I would appreciate your feedback.

Love and light
Kaz

[indigo11]

Thank you very much sparkekaz for this dream interpretation!

You are right, this lady is progressing and ahead in her field then I and I agree she seems beyond reach at this particular point in time. You are correct in the details too!

I've had another dream about this lady which I believe is very important. I've made a thread about this.